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More on My Reunion Highlight

Posted by joyce4japan on August 24, 2007

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 I have these memories of my childhood.  Great memories -  Some of family vacations, some of sleepovers at girlfriends, some of amusement parks with my Dad, step-mom and brothers - great memories, but those memories are for another entry.  The memory I want to share with you today elaborates on the reason for my reunion highlight.

I am the first of 13 grandchildren on my mom’s side of the family.  Three of us were born between the years of 1970 and 1973 – the next grandchildren would not come along until the early 80’s.  This created golden years for the three of us at the top.  We had an aunt and 3 uncles who were still single - in other words excellent Christmas and birthday presents!  And we had the grandparents, still young, and to ourselves!

 My grandparents had the best summer rec place! Complete with ocean and river beaches, pool, speed boat, and golf cart – and they would take us grandkids there several times each summer.  If I could keep myself from sunburn, I would completely wear myself out with early morning crabbing expeditions, followed by a dip in the pool or at the beach, afternoons waterskiing, and evenings speeding around the resort in grandad’s golf cart.  Me, my brother Brian, and my cousin Aimee had some of the best days of our lives there.

We all love to tell the story about the day we actually sat out on the deck and said we were bored.  Wow, was my grandmom mad!  There was so much to do, and so much she had done to provide it, that its no wonder our grumbling really upset her – Of course now I realize how ungrateful we were behaving and how selfish.  (Grandmom if you read this, and I’ve never actually said so, I am sorry and very thankful for those summers at Pot Nets :) )

Well, my week at Ocean City with this part of my extended family was a real treat and blessing.  You see, my grandad, now 87 years old, has cancer.  He started his chemotherapy this week.  Since the recent week in Ocean City, not a day has gone by that I don’t think about him.  Grandad has this one sort of signature thing he does, when things are not going so well, he just chuckles and says, “Aw, shucks!”  Everytime I think about it I smile.

So, Ocean City was one more great Grandmom and Grandad memory, and this is one I share with the next generation, one I share with my own children and that is something awesome.  Not too many people have special memories of their great-grandparents, now mine do!  I am looking forward to this year of opportunity to make a few more of those memories.

Please pray for my grandad and grandmom, as well as my mom, and my Aunts and Uncles over the next ten weeks of Chemo.  Thanks!
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Wow, What A Month!

Posted by joyce4japan on August 10, 2007

So, if there is anyone out there still checking in, I must appologize for one very long silence!  However, once you see the itineration of the past month I hope you will forgive me.

The very same day James arrived in the US, our family hit the road for family, friend, and supporting church reunions.  Here is the list of stops:

  • Charleston, SC – 4 days
  • Poconos, PA – 2 days
  • Ocean City, MD – 7 days
  • Sykesville, MD – 2 days
  • Charlottsville, VA – 4 days
  • Nashville, TN – 2 days
  • Fayettville, TN – 2 days
  • Blairsville, GA – 4 days
  • Atlanta, GA – 1 day

It was a crazy thing to do.  We are exhausted!  But at the same time it was so good to see loved ones we have missed over the last 3 years.  One question I have been asked many times during this trip is “What is the thing you miss the most living overseas?”  I think I discovered the most acurate answer during our travels – the opportunity to play an active roll in the lives of my brothers, sisters, neices, and nephews.  (and that includes the Myhre and Lyon families)  I have neices and nephews I met on the first time this trip and others who don’t remember me at all.  That was a hard reality, but I am very thankful that  I had the past 4 weeks to meet them, love on them and get to know them better.

Here are a few highlights of the month:

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At the Lyon’s Home in Charleston, SC

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James’ Family Reunion – My Dad’s Cousins, and their childrenmonth-trip-090.jpgmonth-trip-174.jpg

My brother Rob, and My nephew, Brayden

Jeneva and her only girl cousins (James’ brother’s girls), Madison and Morgan

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The Smith Family Reunion ( 4 generations of my mom’s side of the family)  This last picture was a highlight for me on this trip.  My grandparents (ages 84 and 87) went to play put-put golf with our family and my brother’s family.  The 1st, 3rd, and 4th generations had a great evening together!

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